Fat Lovers is for dating for fat singles. It's great for fat women, fat girls and fat men. Perfect for overweight people who want to meet friends and find relationships. Totally confidential. Have we used the word FAT too often? Fat is not a four-letter word. It is an adjective, like short, tall, thin, or blonde. While society has given it a derogatory meaning, we find that identifying ourselves as fat is an important step in casting off the shame we have been taught to feel about our bodies.